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John's avatar

Dealing with this individual is not easy, as he is likely to refuse to cooperate with anyone offering assistance.

We do not know his story, but helping him will require building trust & forming a relationship. It is possible to force him to recieve help, and that is likely the most complassionate thing to do, and can be succesful if done compassionately. Form 10 (Judge) & Form 8 (Doctor) are examples of legal processes in Alberta by which people can be shown to be a risk to themselves or others and compelled to recieve help.

We used to have Mental Institutions that would deal with these individuals but we closed them all because there was abuse happening in them. Rather than dealing with the abuse, these institutions were closed. The abuse was real, but these instutions also had a lot of success, escpecially when they were in rural environments where the patients were actively involved with the operation of the institution growning food, taking care of animals, cleaning, cooking. Activities such as swimming, bowling, & sports also were beneficial. Daily life is therapeutic, and can be healing.

Abuse happens, when the care givers are thrust into the role of guards, and under resourced. (I had a friend who had to bath 30 very disabled people every morning on his own). Abuse also happens when care givers are given piles of paperwork instead of being focused on building relationship. (Paperwork creates, not prevents abuse as it fails to reward people who are effective at building relationships)

As a society we have failed to learn by doing more of what works, and less of what does not work.

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susan gerbes's avatar

great article again, Sue-Ann! Love the facts!!!

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